Romans 12:10

Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.~Romans 12:10

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

First Field Trip! UNOFFICIAL!


First Field Trip! UNOFFICIAL

Today we went on our first official field trip! Well, It all began as a trip to our local nursery so that I could get some pricing on a tree as our died back in June. It's taken us this long to get it removed and finally go shopping for one. So, as we were walking through the tree's I think the best one for us is going to be a Chinese Pistache! They grow easily in our area which is a good thing because I am not that good, focused or diligent enough to care for a needy tree! Ha! 


Here is a Chinese Pistache that is 4 years old, (The one we are buying is actually 2 years old) It's a great shade tree, too!

While we were there, they happen to have two bounce houses! The first one was a fire engine one that had like a "rock climbing" wall in it, which lead into a slide to the other side. The boys were excited! Well, at least ONE of them was... 

 Here is my daring Kien who loves anything climbing! He got all the way to the top! 


And of course, he had to stop and pose from the other side. Meanwhile, Gabriel was waiting next to me as I was taking pictures.


And WEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! No fear = lots of fun! (safely of course) 


Now mind you, Gabe is a very observant -watchful one. He doesn't like to just get out there without evaluating first. He saw brother do it, and was very skeptical! He refused to go in the first time around. Finally, when he saw Kien having a great time (and my encouraging him a few times) he finally decided that it was OK to go inside! Kien even came over to help him in! What a helpful brother!


Of course, Kien totally ditched Gabe ad went straight up and down the slide, leaving his brother to himself. He got up and was trying to walk to me FRIGHTENED saying, "I want you, I want out, I want youuuuuuuu!" Looking at the photo don't be deceived. If you zoom in, you might realize that look in his eye is actually being scared and unsure. :( I was hoping he would have had the courage to go through to the slide, but no go. So, of course, I came to the rescue to help him know in his heart that he didn't have to be afraid.


Off to the second bounce house... This one had Toy Story Characters on the outside, so Gabe clearly stated he would, "like to "try" the Toy Story one." We put shoes on and went over to the 2nd one. Kien jumped in straight away! He loved this one as well and tried to jump as high as he could, but I just couldn't catch a very good shot of him in the air!




And as for Gabe? Well, this is about as far as he got. On the step outside the bounce house. Yeah, again, he didn't want to go inside. There was a little boy who joined Kien, and even then Gabe wanted NOTHING to do with it. And that is OK!



Once we put our shoes on we went over to the area designated for photo ops with tons of pumpkins, decor and hay bails. The boys were very interested in going around this "mini maze."

They were shaking hands with this welcoming scarecrow! Gabriel didn't know what to think at first, but then be realized it wasn't real and wanted to hold his hand also!



I loved this one because it was just their size! They even liked it! Kien, as my inquisitive acrobat could only hold it in for a couple shots and then just HAD to climb the fence behind!






As he was climbing up, I thought I should be the good parent who controls their child from going wild all over the property when I noticed that there was running water behind them and realized THAT is what he was looking at. So, walking over the little bridge, look at what we found! Ornamental Koi fish! So we learned that Koi is "carp" in Japanese! Very pretty domesticated fish!


I couldn't resist this perfect "brothers" photo. They were checking out the fish together! And then I had to ask them for a huggy photo as well :)   




Gabe wanted to go back to the hay and look at the pumpkins. This one was GINORMOUS! They couldn't even roll it over! :) 


After their efforts, we decided to go over the bridge again and look at fish. 


This time around I was assuming that it was feeding time, because either side of the bridge we walked over the fish would follow with their lips coming above the water as if it was that time! I giggled and told the boys to look, they are so hungry they are kissing each other! Ha!



I asked the woman standing by the register if she would happen to let children feed the fish, and she smiled and handed us a paper cup 1/2 full of fish food! Oh, the boys were EXCITED! Even GABE wanted some of this action! And it was FUN! They giggled as the fish were trying to beat one another to the food. :)





So, once we purchased the bail of hay, we went home and had some jello in an orange for a snack. It was a great trip to the nursery! We will be going back very soon! 


Friday, September 14, 2012

Update Number Bazillion...

Ok, I am just so crazy busy (as mentioned previously numerous times) that I just don't have time to blog. Or.. er.. it could be that I just need to take a time management class! Ha! 
So, here we go... 

Gabe and Kien and their cowboy boots! Yes, we were headed out and it was not worth the argument to have them put on the proper shoes. I mean, Kien's are getting a bit small, and Gabe's are two sizes bigger, but really, is this a battle worth fighting?! No, and I won some pretty cool mom points! LOL




So, daddy was out for the day with his friends and the boys and I decided that we were going to go hang out at Chili's. They happen to have a guy who was making a variety of things out of balloons! Kien of course had to have the sword! (which lasted two days believe it or not!!)


And proof that Gabe DOES take after his daddy, he opted for the motorcycle balloon! Go figure!



We went to Cabella's with our friends The Hashke's so all the children could watch the fish feeding. It is actually quite amusing. Every Sunday at 1 PM. Afterward we went upstairs and took some shots with some of the props they had out. Boys thought it was super cool!




I love this pool because, well, for one, it is easy to drain and clean and the boys love it as well! This was a huge summer hit!



Story time. Now I want you to note that I am lying on the floor reading the book while Gabriel is sitting on my back. Now before the photo, Gabe would lean in on my shoulder to look at the pages and listen to me read. He STILL even after 2 years LOVES to locate the mouse, still. I also want you to note that Kien is lying on my legs not even close to seeing the book, right?! Yeah, he was TOTALLY RECITING THE BOOK as I was reading!!!!!!! He is such an amazing son!


I don't know what he was doing, but it was cute and photo worthy! He has such great expressions!


Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Utah Trip


As many of you know, my father in Utah had been battling esophageal cancer from what I understand since November of 2011. It wasn't until February that I was informed that it was already at stage 4. At that point, and by word of mouth it was imperative that I was to go and that it didn't look good. So, I arranged to pack up 3 kids and myself to head to Omaha to start the trip. I was going to stay in Omaha for 2 days and leave again with my grandmother to head out to Utah for a couple days, then back to Omaha, then back home. Well, only 1/2 the trip happened, and here is our story.

I left early early in the morning for the 12 hour drive to Omaha. I planned to stay with my parents for 2 days because I knew that with all the driving we had ahead of us, the kids were going to need some down time in between. 12 hours to Omaha. 14 hours to Utah. 14 hours back to Omaha. 12 hours back home. For a teenager it's really nothing but an ipod or an iPhone  and a lot of conversation to keep them occupied. But for two toddlers, this could get a bit tricky. I had everything under the sun you could possibly think of ready for anything on this trip.
We got up to Omaha with no issues what so ever. We even got to see our first real snow on the side of the road. The first night was great. The second day Jeremy stated his throat hurt and he took a fever that rose to a whopping 104.6 degrees. I spent the whole day rotating back and forth the Tylenol and the Advil to break the fever which it did not completely go away. That evening, I took him to the emergency room only to be told it was viral but was given a prescrip for a Z pack just in case even though his strep test came back negative. We were finally able to bring it down to 100 degrees. The next morning, Gabriel took to a fever as well. JUST AS HIGH! It also wouldn't break below 102. degrees after a full day so, I took him the next evening to the emergency room only to be told the same thing. Gabriel wasn't given anything because it was viral with no signs of any other problems. SO this puts us in a dilemma regarding getting to Utah. I was beginning to get frustrated and had an inkling of a thought that maybe I shouldn't be going on this trip. I just pushed that thought to the back of my head because I really just wanted to get this trip going. Jeremy had already missed enough school that with this week of being gone was the exact amount of days he was allowed for the semester in order to not have make up days on Saturdays.

At this point I just decided that we were going to have to go fevers or not and then just let the boys stay in the hotel with Jeremy long enough for me to visit for just even an hour or so. I wasn't comfortable with this option one bit, but what choice did I have? Jeremy was old enough to babysit for a couple hours, but with being sick it would be uncomfortable and miserable :(.

Grandma told me to book the hotel stay, one in Cheyenne, WY (about 1/2 way point) and then again in Tooele, UT so we wouldn't impose (especially the two being sick) on their household. So, while I was calling  around in Cheyenne, I was told by THREE hotels that all of them were booked because of a Legislative event happening Wednesday-Saturday. So, I continued to research for the next town Rawlins only to be asked to call back because all of I-80 had been shut down through the rest of the state due to icy road conditions that even the ice trucks were on standby because they were so bad. REALLY!?!?!?!??! COULD  THIS BE HAPPENING!?!

At last minute attempt my parents suggested booking a flight for a day and fly back the next and they would make arrangements to work at home and keep the boys. That way my Grandmother and I could go together quickly and still have an opportunity to see him. So, in doing so it was questionable if we should pay the extra $13.00 on already spent $1200.00 tickets just in case to have them cancelled. Well, it was a no brainer since we have already had ALL doors closed so far we might as well. The tickets were bought, plans were made and I received a phone call from my Father. I confirmed the tickets and the day I would be out there only for him to say it would not be a good idea for me to come. WOW! I don't know how else to take it, but it was NOT meant for me to go. We cancelled the tickets.

I couldn't help but WANT to be mad about it, but I felt such a peace in my heart that I just cannot explain. God pricked my heart gently and let me know that I couldn't be mad. I had no right to hold any grudge or anger against him as I was honoring his request. It was like maybe my visit was suppose to be in Nebraska that week. It turned out to be a very awesome week and my dad even took us to the "farm" to see Grandma Birkby and Aunt Mary Kay. We even got to see his long time best friend who I so remember at my parents wedding years ago that I will never forget he was so sweaty gross dancing with me!! Ha!  The boys got to see cows up close and even though it was terribly windy, they even got to play on a real combine and tractor! It was nice to see the farm again, drive by the cemetery where Grandpa Birkby and Uncle Pat was and to remember the empty country roads that led there.

At any rate, I returned home and after a day or two of re-cooping from the long drive I sat down to write my father a letter. I did, sent it and even though I spoke to him three times from then to the day he passed away, he never made mention of it. July 9th, I received a phone call stating that he had passed early that AM. I was relieved that it was over. The suffering on both his part and my step-mother, half brothers, grandmother and uncle. My only hope for him at that point was that he was sitting at the feet of Jesus. While on the phone with my step-mother, I asked her if she knew if he read my letter I sent. She said yes and that he kept it on his dresser.

I have to say that from the get go, other than the fact that my father was dying and felt it would be the right thing to go see him, my heart had a greater purpose which is our main purpose while on this earth as followers of our Savior, Jesus. I had to know in my mind and in my heart that he had the opportunity to accept Christ as HIS Savior, especially with the life altering situation he was facing. In my letter I told him that I wish it would have worked out for me to make it, but that maybe there would be another opportunity. I included in there that I know his religious background was of the Lutheran faith and that my only hope was that he had accepted the gift of salvation through Christ Jesus. I also asked him that if he had not, that he would just say a simple prayer that I included at the bottom of the letter.

I will never know while alive on this earth if he did or didn't, I can only hope that whether it was church years ago, someone else or the prayer in my letter could have been that sealant of his eternal residence. Only God is the judge of our hearts.

Sometimes we are meant to go, sometimes we are not.

Proverbs 16:9 The heart of man plans his way, but the LORD establishes his steps.


Whatever happens or doesn't, above all trust God in everything.

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Quick Mini Happenings...

I figured that if I became a tad bit creative with the bathtub crayons on the toilet it might help ALL the boys in the house follow a very simple yet unaccomplished task while using the restroom. Yes, I finally got sick of walking in and finding "presents" in the toilet. So, I wrote FLUSH PLEASE on the inner seat when they lift it up to pee pee. Then, on the back of the lid I put Mommy is: Mad face = When you don't FLUSH and Happy face: When you do FLUSH. 
Well, needless to say, it worked while it lasted for a few weeks. Then it wore off or rubbed off and then had to clean it off. Once in a while I will be surprised it's a clean bowl... other times it's more presents. =/ 
It was a good idea at the time. 


Yummy breakfast. This is Kien's FAVORITE breakfast. Eggs, sausage, jelly toast and yogurt. With orange juice of course!


This was a kinda cool idea I tried. Since we were hosting home team,  and it was basically Easter/April Fools, I needed to find some fun festive idea's for food. So, I made Resurrection Rolls, (http://beinglds.blogspot.com/2012/04/resurrection-rolls-recipe.html) - Meatloaf cupcakes, (http://familyfun.go.com/recipes/colorful-cupcakes-686085/) and kitty liter cake (http://www.kidskuisine.com/kitty-litter-cake/). It was all a hit, but I only took photo's of the trick cupcakes! They were a bit greasy for my liking, but they were fun.






Gabe found some dice and wanted to play hide and seek. Of course we played along as if we really couldn't see them. "Where they go?" he says.


Had no idea that these lily's only bloom once in spring and then that was it. I like to plant things that bloom much of the summer. Oh, well, the are beautiful any way. :)



Our one MUM that we kept from our wedding was planted in our front flower bed. It has bloomed and multiplied every year. It became so out of control I went to remove some of the dead parts and accidentally yanked too much and fresh green. So I transplanted them in to a couple pots.



I need to find a new place for all my planters. Probably will move them to the back yard soon.


Here is another jasmine ivy flower I am trying to grow and take over the fence. They smell awesome. It will be  couple of years though. :) Patience.


Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Breakfast at the Park!

Of course the boys just LOVE LOVE LOVE doughnuts! So, on occasion we will pick some up and go to the park before the daytime heating sets in and the equipment doesn't burn while going down the slide!  :) 
I was going to take the boys to the doughnut shop but, we had to get something else at Wal-Mart. We just picked these up. Not home made, but it's ok to splurge a little. ;) 



Our neighborhood park has actually 4 play area's (including the schools playground) but we find this one the be the best. Trying to find interesting ways to slide down :) 





And of course they have to slide wood chips down first to make it more interesting?! ;) 








Do we see the issue here? Although these cute little shoe shots will soon be too big to put through the bars, I think we should stick to the basics and learn how to put them on the right feet first! Ha! 






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